Why You Saw It and No One Else Did
6/22/202620 min
Ever felt like you were the only one seeing the truth?
Something felt off.
The charm didn’t sit right.
The stories didn’t fully add up…
But everyone else? Completely pulled in.
Almost like they were under a spell.
In this episode, we break down the “narcissist spell”—why some people are so convincing, how they draw others in so easily, and why you were able to see what others couldn’t.
If you’ve ever questioned your gut, doubted yourself, or looked back and thought how did I miss that?—this episode will hit.
Because you didn’t imagine it.
And you’re not the only one who’s been there.
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First 90 secondsSarah Parkhurst· Host0:00
[gentle music] Hi, guys. Welcome to Preview Alliance Podcast. This is Sarah, and I'm back with our favorite... I'm not gonna even say maternal mental health therapist. I think that limits you. Therapist Whitney.
Whitney Gay· Host0:19
[laughs] Hey, guys.
Sarah Parkhurst· Host0:21
We, off-camera, had a little bit of a conversation. We'll get into it. But I was like, "Whitney, pause. We need to record this because- [laughs] ... we cannot be the only people that are experiencing this." And a very popular series, on point of this, was our narcissistic personality.
Whitney Gay· Host0:40
Yeah.
Sarah Parkhurst· Host0:40
What is it? How to deal with one. You guys loved it, because I think we're all dealing with one of some way in our lives.
Whitney Gay· Host0:47
We are. Yeah.
Sarah Parkhurst· Host0:47
And so Whitney dropped a term on me- Mm-hmm ... that was like, hold up, tell everybody about it.
Whitney Gay· Host0:54
Yeah.
Sarah Parkhurst· Host0:54
So backstory, I was sharing about some patterns and actions- Mm-hmm ... of a person that has been... And you know, it's like those people that through your kids, if it's sports teams or- Right ... school or work environment, let's say, if you don't have kids yet, that you're like, be around this person, but I have to be around this person- Mm ... because of these events or this organization.
Whitney Gay· Host1:22
Right.
Sarah Parkhurst· Host1:23
And you start kind of seeing people being like fangirling them, fanboying