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Why You Haven't Met Your Full Potential (Yet) | Ed Mylett

5/16/20261 hr 52 min

What if the biggest thing holding you back right now isn’t your circumstances… but the version of you that you’ve been unconsciously choosing every single day? In this mashup episode, I brought together Garrain Jones, Marie Forleo, James Clear, Rob Dyrdek, Bert Kreischer, Gary John Bishop, and Robin Sharma to have one of the most honest conversations we’ve ever had about identity, habits, and the hidden forces shaping your life. I can tell you this right now, success is not random. It is built. And most people are building the wrong version of themselves without even realizing it. One of the biggest breakthroughs you’re going to hear in this episode is the power of awareness. I say it all the time because it is true. The moment you become aware of your patterns, you take your power back. Awareness is not a finish line, it is something you practice daily, and even catching yourself once can change your life’s trajectory in that moment. Gary John Bishop and I go deep on this idea of stepping back from your automatic responses and realizing you are not your thoughts, you are the one choosing what to do with them. James Clear brings a game changing perspective on habits that I know is going to hit you. Every action you take is casting a vote for the type of person you are becoming. That means your future is not decided in one big moment. It is decided in the small decisions you make every single day. Rob Dyrdek reinforces this idea through the relentless pursuit of becoming your best self, while Marie Forleo reminds you that clarity does not come from thinking, it comes from doing. You cannot wait your way into a better life. We also tackle something that is quietly destroying people’s potential right now, and that is distraction and comparison. Robin Sharma shares how distraction is the death of creative production and how presence is one of the greatest gifts you can give to others and to your own life. And I open up about the battle between your higher self and your lower self, and how comparison, if left unchecked, will rob you of your happiness. The truth is, you cannot build a world class life if you are constantly looking at everyone else’s. Here is what I want you to take from this episode. You do not need a new life. You need a new standard. You need a new identity. You need to start telling a different story about who you are and then back it up with actions every single day. This is not about perfection. It is about alignment. When your habits, your identity, and your standards finally line up, everything in your life begins to change. Key Takeaways: Why awareness is the first and most powerful step to changing your life How small daily habits compound into massive identity shifts over time James Clear’s concept of casting votes for the person you want to become Why distraction and comparison are silently killing your potential How to separate from your old story and create a new identity The difference between your higher self and lower self and how to live in alignment Why clarity comes from action, not overthinking I want you to listen to this episode with one question in mind. Who am I becoming with the choices I am making today? Because the answer to that question is your future. 👉 SUBSCRIBE TO ED'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW 👈⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   → → → CONNECT WITH ED MYLETT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ←  ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   ➡️⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠FACEBOOK⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LINKEDIN⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠X ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WEBSITE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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  1. Speaker 10:00

    [upbeat music] This is The Ed Mylett Show.

  2. Ed Mylett· Host0:06

    Hey everyone. Welcome to my weekend special. I hope you enjoy the show. Be sure to follow The Ed Mylett Show on Apple and Spotify. Links are in the show notes. You'll never miss an episode that way. Now on with the show. Welcome back to the show. Today's topic is nature versus nurture. It's one of the things I get asked about most, whether it's developing business leaders and raising people, not environment, or raising children. Ed, what matters, nature or nurture? It's been a debate that's gone on for eons, and there's really two camps. The first camp says that it's all nature, it's all evolution, it's all genetics. How somebody's gonna turn out is all their biology, their talents, their skills, their success level, their happiness. It's all nature, right? The other camp says, no, it's not nature at all, it's nurture. It's the environment that somebody is raised in. So, you know, one point of view, like a guy like John Locke, the philosopher, he was a real big guy on that the mind is a blank slate, and that we're born into an environment, and the experiences and memories that we have, the situations we find ourselves in, the thoughts that are programmed into us, that's what develops us. And obviously other people think, nope, that's not the case, because two children can be raised in the exact same house, can't they? Say an alcoholic home like I was raised in. One of them turns out to be, you know, very, very successful and happy, and another child has trouble with alcohol themselves or, uh, doesn't have a high level of success or has problems. And so really if it's all environment,

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