Why Trying TOO HARD Is Actually Pushing Him AWAY... | Rewind
5/23/202634 min
In this episode, Matthew and Stephen Hussey break down the real reasons this happens in dating and relationships—from emotional unavailability and low self-worth to the ways we may unintentionally push someone away ourselves.
They talk about:
- Why some people lose interest once they feel they’ve “won” you
- Why emotionally unavailable people struggle with closeness
- How overinvesting too early can change the dynamic
- And how to tell the difference between someone pulling away because of them… or because of unhealthy patterns in the relationship
If you’ve ever felt confused, rejected, or anxious when someone suddenly became distant, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on.
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Matthew Hussey· Host0:55
[upbeat music] Why it is that so many people have the experience of showing interest, and then when they show interest, all of a sudden that person starts to lose interest? What is that?
Stephen Hussey· Host1:15
Is that, is that a thing? Is that a thing that-- Is it an illusion, or is that a real thing that happens? You show someone in... Are there people who get interest from someone and they are turned off by it?
Matthew Hussey· Host1:28
Well, that, that's the