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Why Hot Takes Are Ruining Dating Advice ft. Dear Shandy

5/1/202646 min

Dear Shandy hosts Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine join Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham for a fun Friday Feels crossover at Betches HQ! We get into how they each approach dating advice, why so many people are stuck “analyzing behavior,” and the difference between being confused and just turned off. Then they play a fun round of True Love or True Likes?, reacting to famous couples like Lauren Speed & Cameron Hamilton, Jason Tartick & Kaitlyn Bristowe, Amanda Batula & Kyle Cooke, and more!

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Clips

From Eloquence To ‘Like, Like’
Reading A Couple’s Energy
Why Andy Hides His Job
Apps Are Training Men Wrong
Tinder, Ziti, And Fate
The Manhattan Meet-Cute
Sharleen Wouldn’t Go Now
Broken Umbrella Destiny
Would He Still Propose?
How Conversations Fail On TV

Transcript preview

First 90 seconds

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  4. Sharleen Joynt· Guest0:14

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  7. Jordana Abraham· Host0:29

    [upbeat music] Hello, and welcome back to the Friday Feels episode of the U Up podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.

  8. Jared Freid· Host0:36

    And I am Jared Freid. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana, but it is especially good because we have two very special guests from the Dear Shandy podcast, Charlene Joynt and Andy Levine. Thank you guys for coming on.

  9. Sharleen Joynt· Guest0:50

    [laughs] Thanks for having us, guys.

  10. Jared Freid· Host0:52

    What's going on? How are you guys today?

  11. Andy Levine· Guest0:54

    It's good. It's good to be here. I know we, we didn't cross paths. You asked if we were up- [laughs] ... and we said we were up.

  12. Jared Freid· Host1:00

    Yeah.

  13. Andy Levine· Guest1:00

    And then we never consummated the thing.

  14. Jordana Abraham· Host1:02

    Yeah.

  15. Andy Levine· Guest1:02

    So we're here.

  16. Jared Freid· Host1:03

    So now we all have to fuck.

  17. Jordana Abraham· Host1:04

    Yeah.

  18. Andy Levine· Guest1:04

    [laughs] Yeah.

  19. Jordana Abraham· Host1:04

    Oh, they didn't tell you that's how we do all the episodes?

  20. Jared Freid· Host1:07

    Yeah. I mean, that's how it works. [laughs] They lock the doors.

  21. Andy Levine· Guest1:10

    Now we're in your pocket.

  22. Jared Freid· Host1:11

    Here we go. So you guys have a podcast, Dear Shandy. You talk about dating, relationships. I mean, what do we... why do we have to do this?

  23. Andy Levine· Guest1:19

    Why?

  24. Jared Freid· Host1:20

    [laughs] If you do what we do, what do we need to do this for? What is the...

  25. Jordana Abraham· Host1:22

    [laughs] Meeting of the minds.

  26. Andy Levine· Guest1:24

    It's a- What's the meeting- ... it's a redundancy here. Yeah ...

  27. Jared Freid· Host1:25

    what are we gonna... what, yeah, what are we gonna talk about?

  28. Sharleen Joynt· Guest1:27

    I guess it comes down to who was doing it first.

  29. Jared Freid· Host1:28

    Yeah.

  30. Sharleen Joynt· Guest1:29

    What year did you guys

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