Why Am I So Jealous?
6/22/202640 min
You sent in the questions, and Jillian hand-picked three conversations that uncover what so many people struggle with in love. Is your jealousy really insecurity—or are your needs simply not being met? How do you stop blaming yourself after a breakup? And what happens when the person you love doesn't want the same future you do?
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First 90 secondsJillian Turecki· Host0:00
[gentle music] Hey, everyone. Welcome back to Jillian on Love. Today, I'm going to talk about jealousy, when it's an, a, a, like a you problem, a me problem, or when it's actually something that's coming from your partner or something that is not working in your dynamic with someone. I'm gonna talk about a hard decision of possibly walking away from someone who does not approach conflict in a way that is healthy or does not have the same values as you. And I'm also gonna talk about what happens when we go into such a s- shame spiral when we break up with someone, and how do we, how do we move on without hating ourselves when we've made a mistake. Here I go.
Jackie0:51
Hi, Jillian. My name's Jackie. I have sent you an email in regards to this issue that I've had for the majority of my adult life, um, where I'm incredibly insecure when it comes to other women. Um, in my previous relationship of 17 years, I felt the same way, where I was just insecure and constantly jealous. In my current relationship, it's exactly the same. There are issues with the relationship where it's not, there's no communication and there's no connection, so I'm not