This Is Why You're Still Single And You Probably Won't Like The Reason
5/8/202638 min
If you keep getting the ick with every person you date, the problem might not actually be them. In this episode, Sabrina unpacks shadow work and the ick, breaking down how the parts of yourself you rejected long ago are running your dating life, your relationships, and the triggers that send you spiraling over something small. This is why you keep walking away from available, kind, emotionally present people and calling it intuition.
Sabrina lays out the difference between shadow work, inner child work, attachment styles, and nervous system regulation, and why the healing work most people...
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Sabrina Zohar· Host0:28
I wanna talk to the person who gets the ick with literally everybody. Every single person you go out with, there's something wrong. They fucking chewed too loud, the shoes they wore, they laughed too loud, they tried too hard. And this person genuinely believes they just haven't found the right one yet, that their standards are just too high. And maybe that's true, but maybe, and hear me out, maybe the ick isn't protecting them from the wrong people. It's actually for protecting them from being seen by the right ones because there are parts of yourself that you cut off a long time ago, parts you decided were too much or too needy or too messy or too loud or too whatever the fuck you think, and those parts didn't just go away. They just went underground, and now you're running your entire love life with that really underneath it all. So today, we're gonna talk about shadow work, what it actually is, why it's different from everything else we've talked about on this show, and why it might be the reason you keep ending up right here. Hello, hello, hello, and welcome to another episode of The Sabrina Zohar Show. My name is Sabrina Zohar, and I am your host. Hello, my babies. Welcome back. It's May. It's my birthday