The Super Power of Unavailability - Why Successful People Don't Answer Every Text - E-172
5/22/202643 min
Ever feel like you are constantly on call for everyone else but losing time for yourself? In this episode of the Makes Sense podcast, Dr. JC Doornick breaks down the life-changing power of choosing when to be unreachable. Discover why protecting your time isn't selfish—it's the ultimate secret to gaining respect, reducing daily burnout, and taking back control of your life.
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0:00 Intro
1:19 - The Super Power of Unavailability
2:26 - Why Successful People Don’t Answer Every Text
9:25 - Help yourself by helping others
11:39 - Modern Burnout is an Access problem
14:56 - Exhaustion due to emotional overstimulation
17:10 - Saying Yes to everybody becomes saying no to yourself
20:23 - Most people aren’t addicted to helping others; they're addicted to avoiding discomfort.
27:06 - The Bouncer at the door of access
29:43 - The IRS (Modern Culture is skipping the pause)
33:52 - Silence is a competitive edge in the modern world
36:43 - Choosing yourself without guilt
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Transcript preview
First 90 secondsSpeaker 10:00
Today on the pod, we're talking to Joan, a method actor and scratchers enthusiast. So Joan, what do you like about playing scratchers?
Speaker 20:07
Well, as a method actor, it's about becoming the ticket, scratching up, down, stage left, stage right.
Speaker 10:14
So, so what's your motivation? Because your performance feels so real.
Speaker 20:17
[laughs] Oh, I was just tapping into my inner scratchers.
Speaker 10:20
Incredible.
Speaker 20:21
Yes. Bravo me.
Speaker 10:23
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Speaker 40:30
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Speaker 50:58
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JC Doornick· Host1:28
It's probably gonna sound