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The Most Important Conversation You’ll Ever Have With Yourself | Ed Mylett

6/27/20261 hr 41 min

What if the person holding you back isn't anyone else, but the voice you hear every single day inside your own mind?

In this mashup episode, I bring together two of the most powerful conversations I've ever had about identity, self respect, and the stories we tell ourselves. The greatest battle you'll ever fight isn't with your competitors, your circumstances, or even your past. It's with the conversation you're having with yourself every single day. Because the quality of your life will always rise or fall to the quality of that internal dialogue. If you don't believe you're worthy of more, you'll never fight for more. But once you change the way you see yourself, everything around you begins to change.

Leila Hormozi shares one of the most profound questions I've ever heard: "Do I respect myself more or less because of this decision?" That simple filter has the power to transform your relationships, your career, your habits, and every choice you make. We talk about why self respect is built through daily actions, not empty affirmations, and why discipline is one of the greatest acts of self love you can give yourself. When you begin making decisions that honor who you want to become, your confidence naturally grows because you're finally keeping the promises you make to yourself.

Nick Santonastasso delivers one of the most inspiring stories you'll ever hear. Born without legs and with one arm, Nick refused to let the world define what was possible for his life. His willingness to embrace discomfort, overcome impossible odds, and chase his dream of becoming a varsity wrestler proves that confidence isn't something you're born with. It's a skill you build through courage, action, and relentless belief. His story is a reminder that your circumstances never determine your future. Your decisions do.

Throughout this episode, I challenge you to stop waiting for permission, stop believing the old stories you've repeated for years, and start becoming the person you were created to be. You don't need to become someone else to change your life. You need to start having a different conversation with yourself. The moment you begin treating yourself with greater discipline, greater respect, and greater belief, you'll unlock a version of yourself that's been waiting to emerge all along.

Key Takeaways:

• Why the conversation you have with yourself determines the direction of your life
• Leila Hormozi's powerful question that instantly improves your decision making: "Do I respect myself more or less?"
• Why self discipline is one of the purest expressions of self love
• How keeping promises to yourself builds unshakable confidence
• Nick Santonastasso's incredible lesson that confidence is a skill, not a personality trait
• Why your circumstances never have the final say over your future
• How to replace limiting stories with empowering beliefs that create lasting change
• Why becoming your best self is one of the greatest gifts you can give the people you love

If you're ready to stop letting fear, doubt, or your past define your future, this episode will challenge you to raise your standards, rewrite your story, and start becoming the person you were always capable of being.

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  1. Ed Mylett· Host0:00

    [gentle music] I'm not giving up.

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  3. Speaker 3· Soundbite0:04

    Only love The final season of FX's The Bear. Is what makes the rain The restaurant is flooded. That falls like tears Everything's either gonna be okay ...

  4. Ed Mylett· Host0:15

    No, stop.

  5. Speaker 3· Soundbite0:15

    [glass shatters] Or not.

  6. Ed Mylett· Host0:17

    We are outgunned, and we are outmanned, but we have each other.

  7. Speaker 40:22

    [screams] FX's The Bear, the final season. All episodes now streaming on Disney Plus.

  8. Speaker 20:28

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  9. Ed Mylett· Host1:05

    Hey, everyone. Welcome to my weekend special. I hope you enjoy the show. Be sure to follow The Ed Mylett Show on Apple and Spotify. Links are in the show notes. You'll never miss an episode that way. Now on with the show. Welcome back to the show today, everybody. So excited you're with me. Today's topic is self-love, and it's probably one of the most common topics on all of social media or podcasting, but I'd like to take

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