The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love
4/23/202629 min
What does secure love actually look like? Dr Amir Levine explores what it really means to build a relationship that feels safe, flexible and deeply connected. Amir goes beyond the labels of anxious, avoidant and secure to explain how security is created in everyday relationships. In the final part of this three-part series, Amir challenges one of the most debated ideas in modern relationships, shares why even secure people can shift depending on who they’re with, and reveals how a secure partner can help reshape the way we see the world. We’re Talking Attachment Styles with Dr Amir Levine (Part Three) Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod Take the We Need To Talk quiz to discover your attachment style and get personalised episode recommendations: https://linkly.link/2g3t4 Support Amir here: Website: https://linkly.link/2g2xk My Attachment Topography Calculator: https://linkly.link/2g2xl Secure at Waterstones https://linkly.link/2g8vz Enter 'Secure26' for 25% off (00:00) Intro (01:43) Dr Amir Levine Breaks Down Why Relationships Don’t Need Boundaries (04:50) Can One Shift From a Secure Attachment to an Unsecure One? (07:08) Dr Amir Levine Describes His Childhood Environment (09:39) Saily Ad (10:48) How Did Dr Amir Levine's Upbringing Affect the Man He Is Today? (11:48) What Is Dr Amir's Attachment Style to the Different People in His Life? (14:12) What Is the Best Strategy as a Parent to Raise a Secure Child? (16:37) Most Memorable Conversation (18:33) Paul’s Takeaways Sponsored by: Saily - Download from the app store and use code WNTT at checkout for 15% off. For more details: https://saily.com/wntt ⛵ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Paul C. Brunson· Host0:29
Dr. Amir Levine, your book Secure, you have said something that is going to drive relationship experts mad.
Speaker 30:39
I can think about a couple of things.
Paul C. Brunson· Host0:40
[laughs] Oh, yeah. That relationships don't need [beep].
Speaker 30:42
Oh, that one. Yes. I love that one.
Paul C. Brunson· Host0:45
[laughs] [laughs] That's big.
Speaker 30:48
From an attachment perspective, I find that- Hey there.
Paul C. Brunson· Host0:56
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