The “Hey Girl” Message That Saved Her From the Wrong Marriage
6/21/202656 min
Growing up this week's money diarist remembers boiling water on the stove for baths because the gas had been disconnected, landlords turning up at the front door looking for unpaid rent, and feeling like she never quite fit in because everyone else seemed to have things her family couldn't afford.
Determined to create a different life for herself, she worked hard, saved aggressively, finished university and built what she thought was her dream future with her long-term partner.
Then, two months before their wedding, she received a message request from his ex-girlfriend.
The kind that starts with: "I know you're about to get married, but..."
What happened next changed the entire course of her life.
We talk about calling off a wedding, navigating a breakup during COVID, buying a home on her own at 28, becoming a mum sooner than expected, and the money lessons that finally clicked after discovering the She's on the Money community.
This conversation is about resilience, second chances, and learning that sometimes the life falling apart is actually making room for something much better. By the end of this episode, you'll be very glad she never made it down that aisle.
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First 90 secondsNatasha Bamblett· Soundbite0:00
My name's Natasha Bamblett. I'm a proud First Nations woman, and I'm here to acknowledge country. Tiклиnyan gunya. Nyinaa kaka yaybiino waka. Nyinaa kayiin biiniyakirimdja. Dumunya gumika dumika-itha waka nyinawamin damin imalaan. Mumu bayingkada boma inyanyalan waka. Karnanyakirimdja. Wutu-nara-na. Hello, beautiful friends. We gather on the lands of the Aboriginal people. We thank, acknowledge, and respect the Aboriginal people's land that we're gathering on today, take pleasure in all the land and respect all that you see. She's On The Money podcast acknowledges culture, country, community, and connections, bringing you the tools, knowledge, and resources for you to thrive.
Victoria Devine· Host0:44
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Natasha Bamblett· Soundbite0:46
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Victoria Devine· Host0:47
[laughs] [laughs] [upbeat music] Hello, and welcome to She's On The Money, the podcast that lets you be pervy about other people's money stories, for educational purposes, of course. Welcome back to another one of our Money Diaries, brought to you by our friends at Sky Wealth, where I get the absolute privilege of sitting down with one of our incredible She's On The Money community members and talking to them all about their journey. Let's jump straight into it because this week I got a message and it sounded exactly like this: "Hi, She's On The Money. I grew up seeing money at both extremes. My parents were young and very wealthy. Then, almost overnight, it was all gone. For a long time after,