Sex Therapist: 85% Of Married Women Have NEVER Had An Orgasm
6/17/202652 min
85% of married women have NEVER experienced an orgasm. That's not an opinion - it's a statistic. And Sex Therapist Angela Akins is about to explain why, and what couples can actually do about it. In this raw, unfiltered episode of The Unbroken Podcast, Richard Akita sits down with Angela Akins - relationship coach, counselling psychologist, mental health therapist and sex therapist - for a conversation African couples are too afraid to have. They go deep on why intimacy dies, why the church gets it wrong, the truth about aphrodisiacs and sex toys, and why sex is "an act AND an art" you actually have to learn. If you're married, getting married, or just want to understand intimacy honestly — this one's for you. Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction: Meeting Angela Akins, Sex Therapist 00:02:10 When Does Sex Dry Up in Marriage? 00:10:11 Sex Is an Act and an Art: Learning to Perform It Well 00:12:23 Breaking the Taboo: Why We Must Talk About Sex 00:16:53 Sex Is Actually for Women: Understanding Pleasure 00:19:35 The Problem With Not Communicating Your Needs 00:21:56 Pre-Marriage Counseling: Beyond Church Basics 00:30:18 Sex Toys and Aphrodisiacs: When Are They Appropriate? 00:34:13 Erectile Dysfunction and Psychological Barriers 00:42:00 Mental Visualization and Sexual Satisfaction 00:44:22 Throw the Clock Away: Quality Over Duration 00:47:43 Final Thoughts: Seek Professional Help and Invest in Your Marriage Guest: Angela Akins ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have - about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you 📤 SHARE with someone who NEEDS to hear this before they say "I do""
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Angela Akins· Guest0:29
[whooshing sound] Sex is an act and an art. You have to learn it to perform it well.
Richard Akita· Host0:35
So how do you learn it- Mm-hmm ... to perform it?
Angela Akins· Guest0:37
We have all the knowledge in this world to explore, to learn about our body- Mm-hmm ... to learn about how our body responds to issues. I had an encounter with a married woman who said she's never given her husband a blowjob.
Richard Akita· Host0:50
Hmm.
Angela Akins· Guest0:50
If you want satisfaction and you are my partner, I should be able to talk to you that, "Oh, you touched me this way. I didn't like it. I would prefer you touch it this way." But a lot of women are quiet about it.
Richard Akita· Host1:03
Is it because they don't know?
Angela Akins· Guest1:05
For some, truly they don't know. For some, they think about the man, "I don't want to hurt his ego," because some men feel hurt by that, so they would rather keep quiet and be served, and he gets up, and she will finish it off.
Richard Akita· Host1:17
[gentle music] Hi, welcome to Unbroken podcast. I'm Richard Akita, your host, and my God, my God, my God, I have been waiting