S8 EP7: Olivia Wilde on the pitfalls of long-term love, her unusual family name, and upsetting Jordan Peterson
7/20/20261 hr 20 min
Today, Louis speaks to actor, director and renaissance woman Olivia Wilde. Following the release of her film The Invite, the pair discuss the secrets to a healthy relationship, her unusual family name, and making Jordan Peterson cry.
Warnings: Strong language and adult themes.
Links/Attachments:
Film: The Invite (2026)
https://a24films.com/films/the-invite
Film: I Want Your Sex (2026)
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt32332915/
Film: Booksmart (2019)
https://www.netflix.com/gb/title/81061054
Film: Don’t Worry Darling (2022)
https://www.netflix.com/title/81592177
Documentary: Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere (2026)
https://www.netflix.com/title/81920687
Book: The Happy Prince and Other Tales, Oscar Wilde (1888)
Book: Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel (2006)
https://www.estherperel.com/mating-in-captivity
Podcast: Where Should We Begin? (2017 – present)
https://open.spotify.com/show/3fKOTwtnX5oZLaiNntKWAV
Advert: Dinner With the Russians, Cockburn’s Special Reserve (1980)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=17rOl7i55ag
Book: Nineteen Eighty-Four, George Orwell (1949)
https://www.orwellfoundation.com/the-orwell-foundation/orwell/books-by-orwell/nineteen-eighty-four/
Credits:
Producer: Millie Chu
Assistant Producer: Maisie Williams
Production Manager: Francesca Bassett
Production Assistant: Artemis Chu
Music: Miguel D’Oliveira
Audio Mixer: Tom Guest
Video Mixer: Scott Edwards
Executive Producer: Arron Fellows
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First 90 secondsLouis Theroux· Host0:00
[upbeat music] Hello there, and welcome to another episode of The Louis Theroux Podcast. [gentle music] Today my guest is director, actor, and filmmaker Olivia Wilde, real name Cowburn, more on that later, whose new film, The Invite, a comedy starring Seth Rogen, Penélope Cruz, and Edward Norton, premiered to a rapturous response at Sundance, sparked a bidding war, and landed at A24. I've seen it as part of the preparation for my interview. Enjoyed it. Uh, as an older man in a mature relationship, it spoke to my life experience. It's about two couples spending the evening together, and I don't want to give too much away, but, um, the themes are to do with intimacy in a long marriage, sex, polyamory, communication, the stuff of life. Was that a spoiler? No. Nevertheless, it says "spoiler alert," so I might say a spoiler in a minute. The film is the third Olivia's directed. Her 2019 debut was Booksmart, a coming-of-age comedy, which was followed by Don't Worry Darling in 2022, which starred Florence Pugh, Chris Pine, Olivia herself, and her then-boyfriend, Harry Styles. There was an astounding amount of furore around the film to do with

