Remembering Bob Chapman: The Mentor Who Changed My Life
6/23/202652 min
Sixteen years ago, an unknown CEO running a manufacturing company in the Midwest saw my TED Talk and recognized something in it. He sent me a letter and we made plans to meet. What started as a one-hour lunch turned into three, then four days touring factories together across the Midwest, and an idea I had only imagined turned out to already exist in reality.
That CEO was Bob Chapman. Over five decades, Bob grew an unassuming manufacturing company in the Midwest into a global proof point that leadership grounded in humanity can scale and outperform. Bob saw the people in his company as human beings in his care, people he felt responsible to help become healthy, fulfilled, and whole. His belief was simple and profound: when people are cared for at work, they build happier families, stronger communities, and a better world. He called it Truly Human Leadership.
In the years that followed, Bob became something more: a mentor, a close friend, the central figure in my book Leaders Eat Last, and one of the people who shaped how I think about leadership itself.
In September 2025, I returned to one of Bob's factories in Phillips, Wisconsin, with a camera crew, to capture Bob's incredible legacy in his own words. Six months later, Bob passed away.
As a tribute to this great man, we're releasing the full conversation, in its entirety, for the first time.
In this episode you'll learn:
➡️ Why Bob believed in seeing every person as someone’s precious child
➡️ How Barry-Wehmiller rewrote the rules and
➡️ The university Bob built to teach his employees skills they were never taught
➡️ What impact a caring workplace can have on an employees life
➡️ The real difference between a prosperous company and a healthy one
➡️ Why Bob believed layoffs meant your business has failed
➡️ Why the greatest act of charity has nothing to do with the checks you write
➡️ What changed in Bob over the fifteen years Simon knew him
➡️ The letter Simon sent Bob years ago that ended up framed on his office wall
As Bob said, "You can retire from a job, but you can't retire from a calling." He never did. This conversation is a chance to hear why, in his own words.
This… is A Bit of Optimism.
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To buy Bob’s book, Everybody Matters, head to: https://simonsinek.com/optimism-press/everybody-matters
To read about Bob in my book, Leaders Eat Last, head to: https://simonsinek.com/books/leaders-eat-last
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Chapters
Chapters
- 00:00:00 The Letter That Changed Everything: Meeting Bob Chapman
- 00:05:23 Bob's Revelation: Seeing People as Somebody's Precious Child
- 00:08:05 Building a University to Teach Caring: The Three Transformative Classes
- 00:09:32 The Healing Power of Listening: Why 95% of Feedback Was About Marriage and Kids
- 00:16:42 Recognition Done Right: Catching People Doing Good
- 00:20:55 The 2008 Recession Test: Shared Sacrifice Over Layoffs
- 00:23:07 "Layoffs Means Your Business Has Failed"
- 00:26:02 You Don't Need to Justify Caring: Safety of the Soul
- 00:27:53 12% Compound Growth for 25 Years: The Business Case for Humanity
- 00:29:53 "Our Product Is Our People"
- 00:34:55 From Selfish to Servant: Simon's Challenge That Sparked a Movement
- 00:36:26 People's Universal Truth: They Want to Know They Matter
- 00:38:00 Bob Has Gotten Softer: The Personal Evolution of a Leader
- 00:40:00 You Cannot Retire From a Calling: Carrying a Message That Heals
- 00:43:10 Heart Counts, Not Head Counts: The Language of Humanization
- 00:46:01 The Greatest Act of Charity: How You Treat People You Lead
- 00:49:38 The Promise: Carrying the Torch for Generations to Come
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Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together.
Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do.
Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and The Infinite Game.
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First 90 secondsSimon Sinek· Host0:00
I can no longer be accused of being a crazy idealist if what I imagine exists in reality. That's how I felt after I met Bob Chapman and learned about Barry-Wehmiller, the company he led. Sixteen years ago, Bob saw my original TED Talk about the why and sent me a letter. He claimed to have built a company like the one that I described in my work. The only problem is I tend to write about what's possible. My vision is more of a striving. Clearly, my curiosity was piqued. And so a couple of months later, I met Bob for lunch. To say he was amazing is an understatement. He had an energy like few other CEOs I've ever met before. And that one-hour lunch turned into spending three hours together that afternoon. Bob told me story after story about his culture and his people and how they were responsible for the reason the company outperformed the S&P year after year after year. Now, you have to understand, CEOs often try to convince me that they have the best cultures, and very often after I take a look for myself, I learn that, well, they don't. As much as I loved meeting Bob, I wanted to see it to believe it, and see it I did. We spent four days together, traveling from factory to factory across the Midwest, and what I saw blew my mind. This unknown CEO leading a company with a hard-to-remember name had