Masochistic Macaques
3/17/202650 min
A kinky, submissive woman's last relationship went down in flames when her dom insisted on a power exchange, all-the-damn-time lifestyle. She is raising kids and caring for her sick father. She doesn't have time for this kind of commitment. How can she set reasonable boundaries in the future?
A married man despairs that he'll never kiss his wife again. Smooching is central to his experience of sexual pleasure, and the wife is repulsed by it. Sounds grim.
Speaking of kissing, on the Magnum, it's a "What You Got?" with Dr. Matilda Brindle. The evolutionary biologist...
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I should have watched the Oscars this weekend. I didn't. I never watch the Oscars. Not even the prospect of Connor and Hudson walking a red carpet could get me to watch. And I should have watched that new documentary on Netflix about the toxic male influencers out there poisoning the brains of our boys, Inside the Manosphere, by BBC documentarian and cultural critic Lewis Theroux. And I want to watch it, and I will, and you should too, especially if you have boys.