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Kidnapping!

3/27/202619 min

Somewhere, deep in the woods in Holland, in cabins patrolled by volunteers, there's a very, very kinky gathering. Meet Tom, who indulged his new friend's girlfriend and helped to abduct her, throw her in a van and speed her off to an adventure in consensual non-consent.

This is varsity level stuff and not for the faint of heart. Hear all about it.

Tell us your story! Q@Savage.Love

Clips

Laughing Through the Tackle
How Do You Verify Consent?
Tears As The Goal
Hand-off To The Ransom Room
Why This Was His Jam
Inside A Hidden Kink Retreat
Would He Ever Be Kidnapped?

Transcript preview

First 90 seconds

  1. Dan Savage· Host0:00

    [upbeat music] You're listening to After Action Report at Savage.love.

  2. Howie Mandel0:07

    [singing] After Action Report.

  3. Dan Savage· Host0:11

    Welcome to After Action Report, where I talk with a listener of mine about a new sexual experience they've had, and everybody gets to listen in. This one is a doozy, exploring hardcore kink and consensual non-consent. Strap in, let's ride. Joining me for this After Action Report, Tom. Tom, welcome to the show.

  4. Tom· Guest0:32

    Thanks for having me.

  5. Dan Savage· Host0:33

    You have a crazy story to share, but before we get to it, before we get to the-- down to what you got up to, I want to know just a little bit about you. Who is Tom?

  6. Tom· Guest0:42

    Tom is a, uh, forty-five-year-old male living in Canada. I'm originally from the Netherlands.

  7. Dan Savage· Host0:48

    Okay. Can you give us one wholesome detail? 'Cause your story's wild, and I want, like, a little bit of contrast 'cause we contain multitudes. I do crazy sex stuff, but then I get up early and bake a, an apple cake for my family.

  8. Tom· Guest0:59

    I, I have, uh, I have twin boys and a, uh, wonderful ex-wife. And just to give you an idea of how awesome she is, uh, on my way to Holland, where the story took place, flying there, I got a message from both her as well as from my current Canadian girlfriend to wish me an awesome time and have the most sexy time at this kink event I was headed to. That's how awesome my ex-wife and my girlfriend are.

  9. Dan Savage· Host1:22

    Oh, okay, great. So what is it that you did that you wanted to talk about?

  10. Tom· Guest1:27

    I got asked if I could help facilitate

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