Is “Right Person, Wrong Time” Actually Real? ft Logan Ury
3/18/20261 hr 24 min
Jared is joined by Hinge relationship expert, Logan Ury, to break down some of the biggest dating questions listeners are dealing with right now. They debate whether asking for a voice note before a first date is an innocent preference or a major red flag, and unpack the idea of “digital body language” when someone is great in person but disappears over text. They also dive into the classic “right person, wrong time” debate and the Sex and the City taxi-light theory of commitment. Also, one listener wonders if dating in NYC has become impossible thanks to hyper optimized schedules full of cold plunges, pilates, and skincare routines. Is it selfish or self care? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Jared Freid· Host0:30
[upbeat music] Hello, and welcome to the You Up? podcast. I'm Jared Fried, and I am joined by today's special co-host, Logan Ury. Thank you for coming on the show.
Logan Ury· Host0:42
Yay. I love being here with you.
Jared Freid· Host0:43
Logan, it is always a pleasure to have you on. You've been on our show. You're, you're like an OKP, original key player. [laughs] You were on ... You are one of our most listened to episode, Jared Gets a Dating Coach. That was like ... That was on the, uh, Benefits. So it's a Benefits episode. If you want, you can go to the Benefits sign up. The link is in the bio. You can get updates with Jordana, our regular co-host, who's definitely coming back. You know, we ... The, the post- [laughs] We tape these ahead of time, but the post with Jordana's babies, Charlie and Lucy, are here. We're so excited. It is... The You Up? family has been completed. We wanna wish Jordana and Mike a congratulations. We've already done it 1,000 times. By the time this comes out, the babies are gonna be, you know, 18 years old- [laughs] ... and going to college.