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I Love My Boyfriend But I’m Scared To Move In Together

3/13/202642 min

Jared is joined by BETCHES’ own Tess Tregellas for a hilarious Friday Feels episode. Tess shows up with a positive attitude but she does reveal she just learned sad news about her childhood dog. But quickly turns the mood around as they dive into listener dilemmas! They debate whether calling your fiancée a “solid 8 out of 10” is a red flag or a relationship killer, and explore why words like “pulchritudinous” are far superior to numbers when describing your partner. Later, the two help a listener spiraling about moving in with her boyfriend in NYC, covering anxiety, overthinking, and why sometimes you just have to be excited about love! Plus, Tess shares the wild story of meeting her boyfriend while wearing a wedding dress! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Clips

Rated An Eight?!
Your Partner Is Magical
Stop Copying The Mogul Bit
Use Better Words Than Numbers
Let Yourself Be Excited
The Myth Of Being "Chosen"
Attachment Labels Are Overrated
Showing Up Through Grief

Transcript preview

First 90 seconds

  1. Speaker 00:00

    Sierra has all the best active and outdoor brands for the super athletic stuff, like running gear for cruising up the trail. Woo. And the super athlet-ish stuff, like fishing gear for chilling by the creek. Nice cast. Fitness apparel to push for higher reps. You got this.

  2. Jared Freid· Host0:18

    Ugh.

  3. Speaker 00:18

    And golf balls priced so you can afford to lose one.

  4. Jared Freid· Host0:21

    Oh.

  5. Speaker 00:21

    Or a few. Head to Sierra or sierra.com for the brands you want at the prices that let you do it all. From athletic to athlet-ish, Sierra's got it.

  6. Jared Freid· Host0:30

    A, B, C... Oh.

  7. Tess Tregellas· Host0:33

    A, B, C, D, E, F, G.

  8. Jared Freid· Host0:35

    H- Nice ... I, J, K, M, N, N, O, P.

  9. Tess Tregellas· Host0:38

    I love it. I'm dyslexic, so that could be right.

  10. Jared Freid· Host0:41

    M, N, N, O?

  11. Tess Tregellas· Host0:41

    M, N, N, O.

  12. Jared Freid· Host0:42

    Okay. [upbeat music] Hello, and welcome to the U Up podcast. I'm Jared Freid, and today's very special co-host is Tess Trigelis. Thank you for coming on the show.

  13. Tess Tregellas· Host0:56

    I'm very excited to be here.

  14. Jared Freid· Host0:57

    Tess is a comedian, actor, improviser, storyteller, Betches', you know, face that you've seen on all the platforms.

  15. Tess Tregellas· Host1:06

    Yeah.

  16. Jared Freid· Host1:06

    You work here at Betches. You do all the content here.

  17. Tess Tregellas· Host1:09

    Yep.

  18. Jared Freid· Host1:10

    What's going on in your life? How are you?

  19. Tess Tregellas· Host1:12

    I'm good. I'm good.

  20. Jared Freid· Host1:14

    That sounded bad. [laughs] [laughs] Are you good?

  21. Tess Tregellas· Host1:17

    Am I good?

  22. Jared Freid· Host1:17

    I don't think you can repeat, "I'm good" twice- Yeah, and then it's good ... and have anyone believe you.

  23. Tess Tregellas· Host1:21

    Um- What's wrong?

  24. Jared Freid· Host1:22

    Tell us.

  25. Tess Tregellas· Host1:23

    Well, I've had, like, a couple bads, and so now I'm- I know I'm about to be on the good. The most recent bad is my childhood dog

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