I Earn $280K… But I’m Completely Burnt Out and Trapped
4/9/202632 min
This week’s Friday Drinks is a little bit rogue… and we’re not mad about it.
We’re diving into a money dilemma from someone earning a very impressive income… but feeling completely burnt out, overwhelmed, and stuck. Think multiple mortgages, a business, big financial commitments, and the very real question of “how do I change my life when everything depends on this income?”
It’s a conversation about burnout, lifestyle creep, financial pressure, and what happens when your income grows… but so do your responsibilities.
We also get into a DM that has us asking: is a gift really a gift if it costs you money to use it?
Because while a surprise trip sounds generous in theory… it hits a little differently when you’re the one footing the bill for flights, food and everything in between.
Plus, as always, we’re sharing your community money wins (including a very satisfying warranty moment and a first-time investor win), and broke tips that are equal parts clever and chaotic.
If you’ve ever felt stretched too thin, financially committed to the point of stress, or quietly annoyed at a “gift” that wasn’t really a gift… this one’s going to hit.
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First 90 secondsBec· Host0:00
My name's Natasha Bamblett. I'm a proud First Nations woman, and I'm here to acknowledge country. Tiклинян ганья. Не яна кака яо ямбено вака. Не яна каинимбени якаримджа. Думиня гумига думиги ифо вака нито вамандамин ималан. Мумебайн гара боме иненьян вака гаонен якаримджа. Вуцунарана. Hello, beautiful friends. We gather on the lands of the Aboriginal people. We thank, acknowledge, and respect the Aboriginal people's land that we're gathering on today. Take pleasure in all the land and respect all that you see. She's on the Money podcast acknowledges culture, country, community, and connections, bringing you the tools, knowledge, and resources for you to thrive. She's on- The ... money.
Victoria Devine· Host0:46
She's on the money. [laughs] [laughs] Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast that makes personal finance fun, especially on Fridays. It is our favorite day of the week because it's when we get the team together and we celebrate you, the incredible She's on the Money community. Today, it's just Bec and I, so be prepared for things to be a little bit more rogue than usual. But I will be sharing some of my favorite community money wins. Bec will still be sharing all of her best broke tips, and we'll be helping to answer a money dilemma from someone who is suffering from burnout but has so many financial commitments they feel trapped in their job, plus a DM that you slid into our inbox with that asks the question, is a gift really a gift if it costs the receiver money to use it?
Bec· Host1:29
Huh.