How to Respond When Someone Hurts Your Feelings, says “I was just joking,” or is Passive-Aggressive w/Jefferson Fisher
6/23/202630 min
Do you know How to Respond when someone says to you “I Was Just Joking,” but they actually really hurt your feelings? ? Communication Phenom Jefferson Fisher says it’s so important you “don’t let it go!” and well share why! We’ve all had someone say something hurtful or passive aggressive and then follow it up by “I was just joking” and today we’re learning the secret tips and tools on how to handle this, in a way that helps instead of hurts your relationships! These are tools that truly impact your life. Back by popular demand, Communication Phenom and trial attorney, Jefferson Fisher is here to talk with you and me today about how we handle this the right way and avoid handling it the wrong way, and how it impacts all areas of your life!
JEFFERSON FISHER is a trial lawyer, 5th generation award-winning attorney, writer, and speaker whose work has gained him millions of followers all over the world, through short, simple, practical social media videos teaching people how to argue less and talk more. Whether it’s handling a heated conversation, dealing with a difficult personality, or standing your ground with confidence, Jefferson helps you communicate during life's everyday arguments and conversations! His brand-new book, The Next Conversation – Argue Less, Talk Moreis out now! Jefferson says you can change everything about your life by what you say next! And you and I are in for a treat because Jefferson has stepped away from his busy legal practice to fly here and be with YOU and me today!
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[upbeat music] Do you know how to respond when someone says to you, "I was just joking," but actually they really hurt your feelings? We've all had someone say something hurtful or passive aggressive and then follow it up by, "I was just joking. Oh, I was just joking." And today we're learning the secret tips and tools on how to handle this in a way that helps instead of hurts our relationships. So back by popular demand, communication phenom and trial attorney Jefferson Fisher is here to talk with you and me today about how we handle this the right way and avoid handling it the wrong way, and how it impacts all areas of our lives. Jefferson Fisher is a trial lawyer, a fifth generation award-winning attorney, writer, and speaker. His work has gained him millions of followers all over the world through short, simple, practical social media videos teaching people how to argue less and talk more. Whether it's handling a heated conversation, dealing with a difficult personality, or standing your ground with confidence, Jefferson helps you communicate during life's everyday arguments and conversations, and his brand-new book, called The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More, is out now. Jefferson says you can change everything about your life by what you say next. And you and I are in for a treat because Jefferson has stepped away from his