How To Get Them To Choose Me?
3/27/202638 min
If you've ever lost interest the moment someone became available, or stayed obsessed with someone who kept you at arm's length, this episode is for you. Part three of the Hard Truth Series breaks down the most common pattern nobody wants to admit: using relationships to collect proof of your worth instead of building real partnership.
Backed by research on rejection sensitivity and anxious attachment, Sabrina unpacks why chasing external validation creates a cycle no amount of love can fix, how to tell if you are dating for connection or reassurance, and what it actually takes to...
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First 90 secondsSpeaker 10:01
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Sabrina Zohar· Host0:55
We ask what if questions. What if they come back? What if they don't want me? What if they leave me? But the question I actually think we need to ask is, what if you don't actually want a relationship? What if you want proof, proof that you're enough, proof that you're lovable, proof that you're worth choosing? And the second you get the proof, you're either gonna lose interest or you'll find something wrong and burn it to the fucking ground. And here's the truth, hard truth number three to be exact. Some of you aren't actually dating for partnership, you're dating for validation, and there's a massive fucking difference because one builds a life and the other just feeds a wound that will never stay full. Hello, hello,