How can we raise boys to be emotionally healthy men? - with Dr Billy Garvey, developmental paediatrician
5/25/20261 hr 28 min
Terms like ‘the manosphere’ and ‘toxic masculinity’ are thrown around a lot lately and it has many of us worried. How do we raise boys? What does a good man look like? We speak to Dr Billy Garvey, developmental paediatrician and father of three, about his new book and how to raise emotionally healthy boys. Regardless of whether you have a son or not, this episode is filled with parenting wisdom. After we establish that Dr Billy is the intellectual hall pass of half of the BTB team, we dive into…
- What is a good man and what is our aim when raising children?
- The data that shows that even from birth, boys are treated differently to girls
- Emotional nurturing and social conditioning
- Rough and tumble play as a biological need
- Scaffolding and teaching social and emotional skills
- Role modelling affection and consent
- How do men open up to mates if they then don’t have the skills to support each other?
- “Your relationship with them trumps everything”
- The importance of saying sorry (it doesn’t equal weakness)
- Love VS caregiving
- Sexualisation and body image in males
- Bullying and aggression
- Suicide is the leading cause of death in men
- How do we protect our sons from being exposed to ‘toxic masculinity’?
- Billy’s take on the viral show, ‘Adolescence’
- How to spot mental illness in children
- “We need to love them more” - the little ways we can make a big impact
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First 90 secondsJayde Couldwell· Host0:00
This episode is proudly sponsored by Baby B. Discover the brand-new Alto pram, and explore the full Baby B range at babybonline.com.
Sophie Pearce· Host0:10
We would like to acknowledge the Bundjalung people, traditional custodians of this land where we record this podcast, and we pay our respects to elders past, present, and emerging.
Jayde Couldwell· Host0:20
[upbeat music] Hello, yummy mummies.
Sophie Pearce· Host0:27
Hello, yummy mummies.
Jayde Couldwell· Host0:27
Welcome to Beyond the Bump, a podcast brought to you by Jade Caldwell and Sophie Pearce.
Sophie Pearce· Host0:32
This podcast is targeted at mums, mums-to-be, and women in general.
Jayde Couldwell· Host0:37
And gents, feel free to have a listen, too.
Sophie Pearce· Host0:40
It's a place to have real discussions and ask real questions, no matter how hard, with honest and authentic people. The aim is to have you feeling lighter, more supported, and more understood after every listen.
Jayde Couldwell· Host0:52
Now, we can't promise that it will always be kept PG, so please be mindful around little ears. Here we go.
Sophie Pearce· Host0:59
Here we go. Hello, Billy, and welcome to Beyond the Bump podcast. Before we get started, if any of our beautiful bumpies have not come across you before, can you please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you do?
Billy Garvey· Guest1:10
Yeah. So yeah, my name's Billy. Um, I'm a developmental pediatrician, so I've been, uh, yeah, crazily working with families in different roles for about 26 years now. Um, and yeah, I'm a, a dad to three beautiful kids. Um, and I'm, yeah, do some podcasting. I write some books, and