From Confusion to Clarity: Trusting Yourself in Relationships | Dating Advice
5/20/202655 min
In Part 2 of this conversation, host Eve continues her discussion with Dr. Nic and Prof Mike of Divine Guidance, exploring what it means to be blindsided in a relationship and how to rebuild self-trust after emotional disruption. This episode dives into intuition in relationships, emotional patterns in dating, and the self-awareness needed to navigate both new and long-term partnerships. The conversation unpacks why people stay in misaligned relationships, the difference between hope vs. certainty, and how to recognize early red flags before deeper attachment forms. Eve and her guests also break down ghosting behavior, why partners come back after disappearing, and how to make confident, grounded decisions rooted in clarity—not confusion. The episode concludes with a practical role play covering communication skills, financial compatibility, and relationship alignment. Key Topics:• Being blindsided in a relationship and emotional recovery• Rebuilding self-trust and confidence after heartbreak• Intuition in dating and relationships• Emotional patterns and relationship cycles• Hope vs. certainty in love and decision-making• Red flags in early dating stages• Ghosting behavior and why people come back• Communication skills in relationships• Financial compatibility and relationship alignment• Self-awareness and healthy relationship tools Connect With the Guests Dr. Nic & Prof Mike | Divine GuidanceExplore their work on relationship alignment, intuition, and consciousness: Divine Guidance Institute Love Vibe® 30-Day Relationship Reset | Consciousness State ShiftA guided program to reset relationship patterns and elevate connection:Love Vibe® 30-Day Relationship Reset | Consciousness State Shift Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack (Articles + Deeper Insights): https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Exclusive Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on the Please Me Podcast Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, and personal growth: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Offers & Resources The Sexual Longevity ProtocolOptimize performance, function, and long-term sexual health: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol-course/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesReconnect with your body, pleasure, and confidence: https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Affiliate Partners & Exclusive Deals Explore trusted sexual wellness brands and special listener offers: https://pleaseme.online/sexual-wellness-deals/ Featured Partners:• Shameless Care• Parlor Games• SDC.com• Lady Pump Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning bilingual sexuality podcast, bringing you bold conversations and big lit energy. As a female host in a male-dominated industry, I'm thrilled to announce that Please Me is the number one ranked sexuality podcast in the USA and worldwide, covering topics on sexual health, intimacy, and sexual empowerment. I'm Eve, your host on a journey from trauma to sexual liberation. Join me and my guests as we dive into conversations around orgasm equality, self-love, body positivity, and essential sex education. Let's reclaim pleasure and close the orgasm gap, one empowering conversation at a time. Today, I'm finishing this two-part journey with Dr. Nick and Professor Mike Sebastian from Trust Your Gut, Save Your Ass podcast, where we explore what it feels like to be blindsided in a relationship and how to rebuild trust in yourself. Today is part two, so if you didn't hear part one last week, start there. And for today, make sure you listen to the role play at the end, where I do a role play with Professor Mike and Dr. Nick acts as our therapist. It is a funny but informative role play that you won't wanna miss. I'm happy to share that I've been nominated for an ASN award for Best Educator. This year, it's a one-time vote, so I would truly appreciate your support. Please take a moment to vote for me today. The link is in the show notes. Thank you for being a part of this journey. If you're ready to take your pleasure and sexual health seriously, explore the Sexual Longevity Protocol, the private client blueprint for lifelong sexual pleasure,