From Burnout to Turn-On: Rewiring Super Traits for Better Sex and Intimacy | Women’s Empowerment
4/29/202645 min
In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins to unpack how women’s “super traits”—including empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—can fuel success while also leading to burnout, people-pleasing, and a disconnection from pleasure. Together, they explore the deeper links between trauma, boundaries, sexual health, and relationship dynamics. This episode dives into how emotional labor impacts desire, why the orgasm gap persists, and how high-achieving women often prioritize others at the expense of their own needs. You’ll also hear a practical role-play segment that demonstrates how to communicate desires, set boundaries, and confidently center your pleasure in intimate relationships. If you’ve ever struggled with overgiving, loss of desire, or difficulty asking for what you want—in bed or in life—this episode offers both insight and actionable tools to help you reclaim your power and reconnect with your body. Connect With the Guest – Dr. Jordan Wiggins Website: https://www.thepleasurecollective.comPodcast: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepleasurecollective Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.onlineSubstack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.comPatreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me Podcast https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Offers & Resources Explore exclusive sexual wellness offers and partner brands here: https://pleaseme.online/sexual-wellness-deals/ Featured partners include: Shameless Care Parlor Games SDC.com Lady Pump Courses & Programs:The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasurehttps://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol-course/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practiceshttps://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning bilingual sexuality podcast bringing you bold conversations and big clit energy. As a female host in a male-dominated industry, I'm thrilled to announce that Please Me is the number one ranked sexuality podcast in the USA and worldwide, covering topics on sexual health, intimacy, and sexual empowerment. I'm Eve, your host, on a journey from trauma to sexual liberation. Join me and my guests as we dive into conversations around orgasm equality, self-love, body positivity, and essential sex education. Let's reclaim pleasure and close the orgasm gap, one empowering conversation at a time. Today in part two with Jordan Wiggins, author of Pink Canary, we focus on super traits, empathy, loyalty, and responsibility, and how these strengths can drive leadership while also keeping women stuck in toxic relationship patterns. Plus, our role play segment, a fan favorite, brings these dynamics to life. Tune in for this powerful continuation. If you're ready to take your pleasure and sexual health seriously, explore the Sexual Longevity Protocol, the private client blueprint for lifelong sexual pleasure, a self-paced course designed to support you long-term. And if you want to start gently, download the 30-Day Self-Pleasure and Body Reconnection Practices, a free daily guide to help you reconnect with your body and build pleasure one day at a time. If you'd like to support the show and keep these conversations around sexual health, intimacy, and pleasure free for everyone, join me on Patreon