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Follow These Rules For Meeting The Family

4/3/202636 min

Jared is officially meeting his girlfriend’s parents, but what should he bring? J&J break down the strategy of what to bring, expectations of meeting the family, and what actually matters during that first intro. Jared and Jordana get real about long distance dating, traveling for a relationship, and how to set boundaries when your partner joins you on work trips. They also unpack a listener’s “OnlyFans comment” nightmare after a first date setup goes sideways on Instagram. Plus, Jared explains why asking for Instagram instead of a number is a major red flag! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Clips

The Ick: OnlyFans Assumption
Meeting The Immediates
Instagram Isn’t For Depth
Charm Offensive With Mom
Dating Differently At 41
No Nuance Early On
Text That Forces Action
Pre-Fighting Old Arguments
It’s Okay To Want Sex
Preserving Time On The Road

Transcript preview

First 90 seconds

  1. Jordana Abraham· Host0:00

    This episode is brought to you by HBO Max. If you thought HBO's Euphoria was intense in high school, saddle up. Starring Zendaya, Sydney Sweeney, and Jacob Elordi, season three of Euphoria picks up five years later and life looks very different. Now these characters are on their own with the freedom to make choices that can build them or break them. No matter what they're chasing, money, fame, power, love, or redemption, no one can escape their fate. Don't miss the third season of Euphoria starring two-time Emmy winner Zendaya, premiering April 12th on HBO and HBO Max with new episodes every Sunday.

  2. Jared Freid· Host0:30

    Yeah, my goal is to get the niece the most annoying gift possible.

  3. Jordana Abraham· Host0:35

    So they think of you whenever they're annoyed?

  4. Jared Freid· Host0:37

    That's right. Gotta be a funcle.

  5. Jordana Abraham· Host0:40

    [upbeat music] Hello, and welcome back to the Friday Feels episode of the You Up? podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.

  6. Jared Freid· Host0:48

    And I am Jared Freid. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. Welcome back again. We gotta give you a second welcome back.

  7. Jordana Abraham· Host0:55

    Thank you. I feel- This is like you're, you're settled in. Yes.

  8. Jared Freid· Host0:58

    Now, now the show's happening. This is the real- No more welcome, no more wel- honeymoon's over ... honey, it's over.

  9. Jordana Abraham· Host1:04

    Yes.

  10. Jared Freid· Host1:04

    No more cuddle time. We're d- we're into real, the business of dating and relationships. That's what this show is, it's a dating and relationship show, modern dating, modern relationships, how to deal with the intersection of relationships and technology. That's what this show's all about.

  11. Jordana Abraham· Host1:18

    Well, speaking of the honeymoon phase.

  12. Jared Freid· Host1:20

    Yes.

  13. Jordana Abraham· Host1:20

    You are newly in a relationship.

  14. Jared Freid· Host1:24

    That's right. We're gonna mine this thing for all I can, you know?

  15. Jordana Abraham· Host1:27

    Seriously.

  16. Jared Freid· Host1:27

    We gotta- I have so many, there's so many to- I'm so excited.

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