Episode 553: What’s Really Behind Your Child’s Behavior
6/5/202635 min
Why do kids act out, melt down, scream, or constantly fight with their siblings? In this episode of The Whinypaluza Podcast, sits down with behavior analyst Emily Groben to explore what behavior is really communicating. Emily explains how children often lack the skills to express their needs and emotions, and why understanding the “why” behind behavior can completely change how parents respond. From sibling rivalry and praise to meltdowns and autism support, this episode is packed with practical parenting tools that can help create calmer, more connected homes.
Key Takeaways
• Every behavior serves a purpose.
• Sibling rivalry is often rooted in attention, access, and developmental skills.
• Praise is one of the most powerful parenting tools.
• Meltdowns should be handled with calm and safety, not escalation.
• Children need replacement skills, not just punishment.
• Five to ten minutes of focused attention can make a huge difference.
Connect with Emily Groben
Instagram: @emilygroben
Facebook: Blue Bolt Pediatric Care
Website: BlueBoltPediatricCare.com
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First 90 secondsSpeaker 00:00
No need to wine this Wineypalooza. Have some wine and join us on the Wineypalooza podcast with Rebecca Green Welcome to the Wineypalooza podcast.
Rebecca Green· Host0:12
I'm your host, Rebecca Green. I'm a wife, mother of three, and licensed clinical social worker. I also have three fur babies at home too. My passion has always been to help children and their families. I always dreamed of being a wife and a mother. Parents are always learning through their struggles, failures, and successes and joys. I am no stranger to this wild ride of parenting, and I know behind every great parent lies a team of supportive friends and family. I want to be part of your support system. I want you to know that you are not alone. We are in this parenting world together. Join me every week for insightful discussions with experts on parenting and marriage, as well as other parents who have found the secret to successes in parenthood. You'll learn tips and tricks to make life with your family better than ever. I hope you will follow along with me while we dive into what it takes to achieve a happy family. Hello, everyone. This is Rebecca Green for the Wineypalooza podcast, and I am very excited today because I get to talk to the wonderful Emily Groban. Emily, thank you so much for being here with me today.
Emily Groben· Guest1:28
Thank you for