Ep 97: Oscar-Worthy 'The Invite' Delivers & Busts Hollywood's Swinger Myths
7/15/202655 min
🍍 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — we're busting the biggest swinger myths! Is every party one giant orgy? Are all swinger wives bisexual? And are swingers really just sex addicts? Umm, no, probably & maybe ;)
👉 PLUS... we review The Invite! 🎬 No spoilers, but we went in expecting another Hollywood swinger train wreck and walked out genuinely impressed. 100% recommend! Only beef is that it's a little too mainstream for our taboo little secret 🤫
👉 We also talk about why swinging is about so much more than sex. The best experiences are about connection, friendships, and shared adventures. As they say... you come for the sex, but you stay for the friendships and deep connections.
⚜️🍍 And finally, we recorded this just before heading to Naughty N'awlins 2026! Stay tuned for next week's recap because this year somehow topped our already unforgettable Naughty 2025 trifecta. Our hair is still on fire, we're knee-deep in the post-Naughty comedown, and we're still trying to process the highest of highs ⚜️🍍
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025
🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026
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Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!):
🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com
🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Swinger Myths: 15 Things Everyone Gets Wrong About the Lifestyle https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-myths-15-things-everyone-gets-wrong-about-the-lifestyle/
The Invite Review: An Oscar-Worthy Swinger Movie https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-invite-review-an-oscar-worthy-movie-about-swinging/
🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/
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🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj
🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv
🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/
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Transcript preview
First 90 secondsLeo· Host0:00
[upbeat music] Find us at vanilla swingers dot com, and you'll find Kat's OnlyFans page there too.
Kat· Host0:10
[laughs] Ah, you wish.
Leo· Host0:12
[laughs] [upbeat music] Hey, Kat.
Kat· Host0:22
Yeah, Leo?
Leo· Host0:23
I'm gonna record one of those silly disclaimers that you put at the beginning of the podcast, like a- A parental advisory sticker. Yeah.
Kat· Host0:28
Let's go, because this is gonna be explicit.
Leo· Host0:30
Oh, yeah, we're gonna talk about lots of sex.
Kat· Host0:31
Lots of bad language.
Leo· Host0:32
We might even have sex while on the podcast.
Kat· Host0:34
We might have- And you'll just be listening to the noise of our lovemaking. There might be nudity.
Leo· Host0:37
But you can't see it on the podcast.
Kat· Host0:38
It doesn't matter.
Leo· Host0:39
Okay.
Kat· Host0:39
You can hear it.
Leo· Host0:40
That's true.
Kat· Host0:40
You can hear the nudity.
Leo· Host0:41
We might corrupt you- So- ... if you're under the age of 18 ...
Kat· Host0:42
that's the disclaimer ...
Leo· Host0:43
don't listen.
Kat· Host0:44
We're not professional.
Leo· Host0:45
What else?
Kat· Host0:45
And, yeah, we're not professionals.
Leo· Host0:47
We don't know anything.
Kat· Host0:47
We know nothing.
Leo· Host0:48
Yeah.
Kat· Host0:48
Absolutely nothing.
Leo· Host0:48
And if you wanna try to sue us, well, we don't have any money either.
Kat· Host0:51
Yeah, 'cause this is bite-size and commercial free. We're not trying to make any money.
Leo· Host0:54
Yeah.
Kat· Host0:54
It's fun.
Leo· Host0:54
We just do it 'cause we for fun.
Kat· Host0:55
Fun, fun.
Leo· Host0:56
So if you like it, then, uh, tune in and listen.
Kat· Host0:58
Subscribe, yeah.
Leo· Host0:59
Word. [upbeat music] Oh, say can you see, by the threesome last night, what so wild and carefree with a girlfriend so sexy.
Kat· Host1:20
You know, I had no idea what you were gonna do. I thought, "Do you really think our listeners want to hear you sing The Star-Spangled Banner on the Fourth of July?"
Leo· Host1:27
What do you think we were doing over the Fourth of July weekend? We