Ep 93: Guys Are Total Suckers (For A Compliment)
5/27/202655 min
🍭 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we accidentally discovered the male equivalent of receiving flowers - a compliment 💐🙌
👉 After 2 back-to-back MFF adventures (with some sneaky Russian & Ukrainian Easter eggs 🐣 hidden inside), Leo learns firsthand that one tiny compliment can apparently fuel a man for the next decade. What's up with men getting no compliments!? We can do better, ladies!
👉 We also detail our Tatyana houseboat saga and recap our 3rd Illuminaughty party, where the younger, flirty crowd and consent-first vibe are doing something most clubs still haven’t figured out. Newbies, single females, soft approach… and honestly? We’re fans.
🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!
🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026
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🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Guys Are Total Suckers (For A Compliment) https://www.vanillaswingers.com/75-compliments-to-say-to-men-that-arent-just-youre-hot/
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🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj
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First 90 secondsLeo· Host0:00
[upbeat music] Find us at vanilla swingers.com, and you'll find Kat's Only Fans page there too.
Kat· Host0:10
[laughs] [laughs] Ah, you wish.
Leo· Host0:12
[laughs] [laughs] [upbeat music] Hey, Kat.
Kat· Host0:21
Yeah, Leo.
Leo· Host0:22
I'm gonna record one of those silly disclaimers that you put at the beginning of the podcast, like a- A parental advisory sticker. Yeah.
Kat· Host0:28
Let's go, because this is gonna be explicit.
Leo· Host0:30
Oh, yeah, we're gonna talk about lots of sex.
Kat· Host0:31
Lots of bad language.
Leo· Host0:32
We might even have sex while on the podcast.
Kat· Host0:34
We might have- And you'll just be listening to the noise of our lovemaking. There might be nudity.
Leo· Host0:37
But you can't see it on the podcast.
Kat· Host0:38
It doesn't matter.
Leo· Host0:39
Okay.
Kat· Host0:39
You can hear it.
Leo· Host0:40
That's true.
Kat· Host0:40
You can hear the nudity.
Leo· Host0:41
We might corrupt you- So- If you're under the age of 18 ...
Kat· Host0:42
that's the disclaimer Don't listen. We're not professional.
Leo· Host0:45
What else?
Kat· Host0:45
And, yeah, we're not professionals.
Leo· Host0:47
We don't know anything.
Kat· Host0:47
We know nothing.
Leo· Host0:48
Yeah.
Kat· Host0:48
Absolutely nothing.
Leo· Host0:48
And if you wanna try to sue us, well, we don't have any money either.
Kat· Host0:51
Because this is bite-sized and commercial free, we're not trying to make any money.
Leo· Host0:54
Yeah.
Kat· Host0:54
It's fun.
Leo· Host0:54
We just do it 'cause we for fun.
Kat· Host0:55
Fun, fun.
Leo· Host0:56
So if you like it, then, uh, tune in and listen.
Kat· Host0:58
Subscribe, yeah.
Leo· Host0:59
Word. [upbeat music] So we tried a little Freddie. Mm, I got an identity map. I could be brown, I could be blue, I could be violet sky. I could be hurtful, I could be purple, I could be anything you like. Gotta be green, gotta be mean, gotta be everything more. Why don't you like me? Why don't you like me? Why don't you walk out the door?
Kat· Host1:20
I love that song.
Leo· Host1:21
You know what that song's about, right? We talking about purple hair Kyiv cutie that we met this weekend at the Illuminati party. We had an epic weekend.
Kat· Host1:29
We had such