E264: What Women Really Think About... Part 3
6/11/20261 hr 5 min
So we're back with Part 3 of What Do Women Really Think About…?, giving you the honest answers women don't always say out loud. From the mental load to mirror selfies, nothing’s off limits. 💛 In this episode, you'll hear: Whether women actually want a "book boyfriend," or if that fantasy is better left on the page? The real deal on mental load: is it running in the background every single day? Cum on the face: hot, not, or total depends? We give you the honest answer. Dick pics and mirror selfies: what reads as sexy vs what gets an instant delete? Blowjobs before a shower: the candid take you've been too shy to ask about. Why women open up to their friends about their sex lives so freely? Getting finished with hands or fingers: thoughtful move, or last-ditch effort? Here's the thing: the questions that feel embarrassing to ask are usually the ones everyone else is secretly wondering too. You're not weird for being curious. You're just paying attention. 🍆 Ready to be the best they've ever had? The Ultimate Foreplay Guides are our step-by-step guides to using your hands and mouth on your partner in ways that will blow their mind. Clear, no-guesswork techniques for fingering, oral, handjobs, and blow jobs. Separate guides for vulvas and penises, so you know exactly what to do. Built to take you from unsure to genuinely confident. Perfect if today's questions left you wanting to level up. 👉🏻 Check out The Ultimate Foreplay Guides here: https://vmtherapy.com/foreplay 💛 Stay Connected 📸 Follow us on Instagram → https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander 💌 Get our weekly email, real talk, expert tips, and zero shame → https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe 🎧 Subscribe to Pillow Talks wherever you get your podcasts!
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First 90 secondsXander Marin· Host0:00
Yeah, we don't hear from a lot of women. We don't really hear from any women that are like, "Oh, yeah, I just out of the blue randomly got sent a penis, and that just made my day."
Vanessa Marin· Host0:12
[laughs] [upbeat music] Hello, and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast. We're your hosts, Vanessa.
Xander Marin· Host0:26
And Xander Marin.
Vanessa Marin· Host0:27
I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
Xander Marin· Host0:30
And I'm just a regular dude. We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
Vanessa Marin· Host0:37
Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you'd had. We are back with part three of our What Do Women Really Think About... series. We have done two parts of this already, and we always turn to Instagram for this. We say, you know, "This is the episode that we're doing. What topics, what questions do you want us to ask women about? Do you wanna, like, hear the insight, like, behind the scenes of what women really think about certain topics?" And it's wound up being a really popular topic. We keep getting asked for more episodes of it. We also have a What Do Men Really Think About series.
Xander Marin· Host1:29
Which is really just