Complacency in Relationships: Why Do You Expect Them to Keep Choosing You If You’ve Stopped Showing Up?
5/31/202611 min
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Complacency doesn’t usually destroy a relationship overnight.
It happens slowly.
The dates stop.
The compliments stop.
The flirting fades.
The effort gets replaced with routine.
And the person you love starts feeling less like they’re chosen… and more like they’re just there.
Comfort in a relationship is beautiful.
Complacency is not.
You chose them.
So how long do they have to keep choosing you while feeling like you stopped showing up?
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