Closure, No Contact, And How To Move On

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You're waiting for them to explain why they left. You're waiting for the apology, the conversation, the text that finally makes it all make sense. You're rehearsing what you'd say. You're checking their socials for a sign. You're telling yourself you can't move on until you get closure. But here's the harsh truth. Closure doesn't come from them. It never did. That conversation that you keep rehearsing in your head, even if you got it, every single fucking word exactly how you imagined it, it wouldn't be enough because closure isn't information. It's not an explanation. Closure is grief, and you've been avoiding grief by pretending you just need one more answer. Hello, hello, hello, and welcome to another episode of The Sabrina Zohar Show. My name is Sabrina Zohar, and I am your host. My friends, we are Hard Truth Four. We made it. I love this series. I love series in general, so pop them into the comments. What series do you want next? Don't worry, we're gonna do the nervous system one. I heard my babies. You asked for it, you shall receive. But I'm so excited because this one is a biggie. At first, I was gonna talk about how you have to learn to grieve, and I said, "Bitch, ain't nobody gonna understand what the fuck you're talking about." We have to learn that closure doesn't come from another person. That's the hard truth. Closure is an inside job, and you've got to learn to grieve if you actually wanna