Can Someone Truly Change After Cheating?
5/27/20261 hr 33 min
This week J&J unpack why lying in a relationship can be worse than cheating itself and debate whether an ex warning a new girlfriend is “helpful” or completely unhinged. They break down a breakup that left one listener scrambling for a new apartment and explain the difference between being petty and being prudent when money and resentment collide. Plus, Jared defends his longtime 'finger in the butt' stance while Jordana gives practical advice for couples trying new things in bed without shame or panic. They also discuss a man who refuses to wear deodorant (red flag), a fiancé calling another woman “the prettiest girl he’s ever seen,” and Jared accidentally discovering he’s been saying “sight on scene” instead of “sight unseen” for years! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Jordana Abraham· Host0:28
[upbeat music] Hello, and welcome back to the U Up podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.
Jared Freid· Host0:36
And I am Jared Freid. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. How are you? What's going on? We are virtual for people that are on YouTube land. What's going on? How are you?
Jordana Abraham· Host0:51
Oh.
Jared Freid· Host0:51
What's, how's- What's going on?
Jordana Abraham· Host0:52
I'm good. General- How's Long Island? Yeah, I'm good.
Jared Freid· Host0:55
You're, how are the babies? How are you? How's Mike?
Jordana Abraham· Host0:58
The babies are good. I, um, we, we brought them, the twisters to the city for a birthday party on Saturday.
Jared Freid· Host1:06
How did that go? That's like climbing the, the, you know, going to the Himalayas to climb a mountain I feel like with two babies. Or is it easier than I think or is it- Well, it's not that bad 'cause we're, you don't, you know, we're, we just take a c- we drive, so we just put them in the, in the car.
Jordana Abraham· Host1:23
And then, like, now I'm really g- I've now been demoted from front seat. I now sit in between them in the back seat.