Burn the Haystack!
4/28/202656 min
A gay man's female friend is planning her wedding. But the relationship is already a disaster, and the caller does NOT approve of this union. Should he still help her choose a wedding dress?
A bi man got into a cat fight with a guy on one of the hook-up apps when he wasn't polite enough about ending a conversation. Is there a social contract on gay hook-up apps?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Dr. Jennie Young, author of Burn the Haystack: Decode Dating, Torch the Duds, and Make Room for Men Who Matter...
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First 90 secondsSpeaker 00:00
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Speaker 10:07
[singing] If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony. Well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
Dan Savage· Host0:26
I do not feel so good. I'm guessing it's probably, I'm guessing it's definitely all the sperm I inhaled over the weekend. Got a lot in my eyes, too, which are very red right now. Hey, don't judge me. I wasn't on my knees in a sex club in Berlin all weekend. Not that there's anything wrong with that. I was outside walking around in the sunshine and inhaling so much spunk, and if that makes me a slut, well, if you left the house this weekend, then you are a slut, too. Because I'm talking about tree cum here. I'm talking pollen, not man cum, and if you left the house this weekend, you were inhaling it, too. Talking about pollen again, people. Tree sperm. Decades ago, city planners decided to plant only male trees. City planners didn't like the mess that flowers and fruits dropping from female trees tended to leave everywhere, and that choice, only male trees that dump loads of pollen into the air, no female trees with beautiful flowers and delicious fruits, that choice