Blindsided in Love: Financial Manipulation, Red Flags & Rebuilding Trust | Women’s Empowerment

In this powerful Part 1 conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Nic and Professor Mike Sebastian from the Trust Your Gut Save Your Ass Podcast to unpack what it really means to be blindsided in a relationship—and how to find your way back to yourself. Through a deeply personal story, Eve shares her experience of financial manipulation within her marriage and the long-term impact it had on her life, credit, and sense of self. What begins as a reflection on a Netflix show quickly unfolds into a much larger conversation about red flags, intuition, trauma responses, and the patterns that keep people stuck in unhealthy relationships. Together, they explore how financial dynamics can quietly erode a partnership, why so many people overlook early warning signs, and how societal pressure—especially for women—can lead to compromising your truth. This episode dives into the importance of emotional awareness, recognizing misalignment early, and understanding the role both partners play in relationship dynamics. Dr. Nic and Professor Mike introduce the concept of “resonance” in relationships—how shared values, habits, and everyday preferences matter more than we often realize—and why ignoring small incompatibilities can lead to major fractures down the line. They also break down one of the most powerful and confronting questions you can ask in any relationship: “Are you willing to work on this?” This episode is an honest, nuanced look at love, accountability, and the journey of rebuilding trust—not just with others, but within yourself. Stay tuned for Part 2, where things get even deeper with a live relationship role-play and communication breakdown. Key Topics Covered Financial manipulation and financial infidelity in relationships Recognizing relationship red flags early How trauma impacts communication and decision-making The psychology of staying in unhealthy relationships Sexless marriage and emotional disconnection Rebuilding self-trust after divorce Dating app culture and dishonesty statistics The myth of “opposites attract” vs. relationship compatibility Understanding “resonance” and alignment in partnerships The role of intuition, gut feelings, and emotional awareness One question that can determine the future of your relationship Connect With the Guests Dr. Nic & Prof Mike | Divine GuidanceExplore their work on relationship alignment, intuition, and consciousness: Divine Guidance Institute Love Vibe® 30-Day Relationship Reset | Consciousness State ShiftA guided program to reset relationship patterns and elevate connection:Love Vibe® 30-Day Relationship Reset | Consciousness State Shift Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack (Articles + Deeper Insights): https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Exclusive Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on the Please Me Podcast Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, and personal growth: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Offers & Resources The Sexual Longevity ProtocolOptimize performance, function, and long-term sexual health: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol-course/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesReconnect with your body, pleasure, and confidence: https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Affiliate Partners & Exclusive Deals Explore trusted sexual wellness brands and special listener offers: https://pleaseme.online/sexual-wellness-deals/ Featured Partners:• Shameless Care• Parlor Games• SDC.com• Lady Pump Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices