A Cure for Cottonmouth?
3/3/20261 hr 3 min
When does subbing morph into self-harm? The relationship between a man and his much younger trans woman lover involves intense physical abuse. The girl has a wretched history, and engages in self harm. Although she gives consent, there's also a language barrier that makes everything they do seem out of control and destructive.
A bisexual woman took the plunge and came out to her conservative Catholic mother. Although her mother didn't completely melt down, she has a ways to go before she reaches acceptance. What will it take to move her mother into the light?
...
Clips
Transcript preview
First 90 secondsDan Savage· Host0:00
Hey, this is Dan Savage. Thank you for listening to me answer your sex and relationship questions all of these years. It has been my absolute privilege. If you can, please consider subscribing at savage.love/subscribe. If you subscribe, you get to hang out with me at Savage Love Live. You get access to a community of like-minded deviants, the best kind of deviants, my kind of deviants. You get this show ad-free, more Savage Love questions in the column, and other perks. Anything you can contribute helps us keep this show going and hopefully make it great and pleasing to you and your eardrums every week. That's savage.love/subscribe. Thank you.
Speaker 10:37
You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's sex and relationship show for grownups. If you're under 18, get out of here, youngin'.
Speaker 20:46
[singing] If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony, well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
Dan Savage· Host1:04
Okay, guys. Guys, I hear you. #NotAllMen. I think I actually said that in the intro to last week's show. You know, last week's show where I talked about the guy who got arrested for fucking a dead deer by the side of the road. #NotAllMen would fuck a dead deer by the side of the road. I have been a man all my adult life. I have never fucked a dead deer by the side of the road, nor have I ever had to resist the impulse to fuck a dead deer by the side of the road. But I somehow couldn't