54 Minutes on How to Build Self Esteem and Confidence

Gary Vaynerchuk· Host0:00

Go pay attention to this. Go watch a, go to a basketball game, watch the home team go on a terrible run, and pay attention to who boos and who cheers. [laughs] Very interesting insight, and that's what happens. When you sent that email, there were people that booed.

Aubrey Marcus· Guest0:11

Sure.

Gary Vaynerchuk· Host0:12

And then there were the real fans that cheered.

Aubrey Marcus· Guest0:14

Yeah.

Gary Vaynerchuk· Host0:15

And that's how I see it. And so why is everything that's happening in your life the definitive end score? It's a process. This is the Gary Vee Audio Experience.

Aubrey Marcus· Guest0:28

[rock music plays] Gary, what's up, my man?

Gary Vaynerchuk· Host0:30

Life is good, brother.

Aubrey Marcus· Guest0:31

It is good, isn't it?

Gary Vaynerchuk· Host0:32

Yeah.

Aubrey Marcus· Guest0:33

That's one of the fucking things that, you know, I've had the opportunity to get to know you- Yeah ... not only in the professional context, but also just as a homie, and people always ask me, like, "What's he like? What's he like?" And I have to say, man, you're fucking happy. Like, there's no doubt about that.

Gary Vaynerchuk· Host0:49

Yeah.

Aubrey Marcus· Guest0:50

You know? You are, like, one of the busiest and happiest people. Like, if you turn the dials of both of those things up, a lot of times those things don't coincide- Yeah, that's right ... but for you they do.

Gary Vaynerchuk· Host0:58

And I think the thing that I'm conscious of is, off the screen, I'm real happy, too, right? Like, y- you know, I think, so the, y- one thing that's really been interesting is as, as awareness around an individual grows, a level of responsibility comes along with it. I'm definitely, I'm at a point right now where I'm really am being thoughtful of, like, look, there's a lot of eyes on me, and a lot of people who are not happy are putting their eyes on me, and I'm helping them through that. And