5 Reasons You Ignore Red Flags
5/4/202631 min
Why do you keep falling for the wrong person—even when you know better? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five real reasons we choose partners who can’t meet us, from unresolved childhood patterns to moving too fast when chemistry hits. She challenges the idea of “soulmates” and explains why love isn’t something you find—it’s something you consciously build. If you’ve ever questioned your patterns in dating, this episode will help you understand them—and finally change them. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Threads: @jillianturecki YouTube: @jillian.turecki Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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First 90 secondsJillian Turecki· Host0:00
[gentle serene music] Five reasons why you will fall in love with the wrong person at least one time in your life, potentially a few times in your life. The first reason is this: We are meant to get it wrong. We're meant to get it wrong. We are meant to learn from our experiences. How, I mean, how are we supposed to know exactly how to be in a relationship, how to overcome our ego, how to communicate, how to sustain a relationship for the long term if we've never seen it, and if we're never taught this in school? Because until we actually have experiences with people who are, for whatever reason, wrong for us, and we are actually wrong for them, we can't know what's right for us. How can we know joy and happiness if we don't know sadness? Part of the journey of life is making a lot of mistakes, a lot of detours, and hopefully learning from those mistakes and gathering the data, the information that those mistakes kind of reveal to us so that we can make better decisions.