5 Habits That Quietly Destroy Every Relationship
6/29/202645 min
Most relationships don't end because of one big mistake—they slowly fall apart through small habits we rarely notice. In this episode, Jillian reveals the behaviors that quietly destroy trust, the qualities that matter most in a partner, the biggest misconceptions about finding "the one," and the mindset shifts that create healthy, lasting love.
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First 90 secondsJillian Turecki· Host0:00
[gentle music] Here are five habits or patterns that I have seen in couples over the 20-plus years that I've been working with people that guarantees the destruction of the relationship. These are habits that lead to disconnection, they lead to resentment, and they lead to a complete break of trust. Number one, venting to people about your partner. When you feel frustrated with your partner, address it with them, not your friends, not your mom, not your dad, not your sibling, because every time you vent to someone else, you invite their projections into your relationship, and it influences your perspective of them and feeds a negative story about them and your relationship, and it will absolutely weaken your relationship. So speak to your partner when there is a problem. That is how you respect the relationship and you build trust. Number two, not having your partner's back. Part of being in a healthy relationship is having your partner's back in public, even when you don't agree with them