#482 From Lips to Tips: Mastering Sexy Communication & Pleasure Mapping
4/21/20261 hr 19 min
Are You Speaking the Language of Love (and Desire) in the Bedroom? Get ready to revolutionize your relationships and intimacy with the latest episode of Shameless Sex! We're diving into two exclusive clips from Intimacy Rewired, a 6-week online bootcamp that's all about mastering the skills that make relationships easy. Joining us are expert educators Charlie Glickman and Sarah Tomchesson, who share their expertise on communication and pleasure literacy. Here's what you'll learn:
- The secrets to communicating your needs and boundaries like a pro (without being a demanding diva or a silent sufferer)
- How to negotiate with your partner like you're trying to score a deal at a market (but, you know, for love and intimacy)
- The art of pleasure mapping and how to tune into your body's subtle cues (because pleasure is not just a prize, but a compass that guides you to what feels good)
- How to drop into slowness and presence to reignite desire and intimacy (bye-bye, performance anxiety!) Charlie Glickman, a seasoned sex and relationship coach with over 30 years of experience, joins us to share his insights on making communication sexy. With a focus on sex-positivity, queer issues, and masculinity, Charlie will help you relate to your partner in a more meaningful way. You can find out more about Charlie at Make Sex Easy (http://makesexeasy.com). Sarah Tomchesson, a certified sex educator and intimacy coach, teaches us about the power of pleasure literacy and embodied practices. As the Marketing Director at Magic Wand and co-host of the Fuck Yeah podcast, Sarah brings her expertise to help you experience more sexual satisfaction and joy in your daily life. Check out her website at http://sarahtomchesson.com to learn more. By tuning in, you'll gain practical tips and insights to elevate your relationships and intimacy. You'll learn how to create a more authentic and fulfilling connection with your partner and yourself. So, get ready to shamelessly explore the world of sex and relationships! Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired 6-week online course here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com Follow Intimacy Rewired on IG @intimacy.rewired and instantly receive a free gift Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com If you’re struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/shameless
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First 90 secondsAmy· Host0:00
Okay, can we talk about my spring closet reset? Because I have been ruthlessly editing. Fewer pieces, better materials, no more fast fashion regrets hanging there to judge me.
April· Host0:12
Same over here. And honestly, Quince has become my secret weapon. Like, beautiful everyday pieces made from 100% linen, organic cotton, super soft denim, styles starting around $50. Now that's my new love language. Lightweight, breathable, effortlessly put together.
Amy· Host0:30
And their leather bags, made from 100% hand-woven Italian leather, and look wildly more expensive than they are. I've gotten so many compliments.
April· Host0:42
I complimented you 'cause I love it.
Amy· Host0:43
I know. Me too.
April· Host0:44
And here's the thing, everyone, they work directly with ethical factories. Cut out the middleman so you're paying for quality, not some inflated brand name. I just got their bamboo sheets, and I genuinely cannot stop touching them. Softer and more luxurious than sheets I paid way too much money for. And guess what? I don't know what you're waiting for, because you can get them right now too if you shop at Quince for everything.
Amy· Host1:08
Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/shameless for free shipping and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada too. Go to Q-U-I-N-C-E.com/shameless for free shipping and 365-day returns. quince.com/shameless.
Sarah Tomchesson· Soundbite1:27
Just