1487 - Why People in Good Relationships Stop Having Great Sex w/Deborah Kat
6/13/20261 hr 16 min
Deborah Kat called in to talk al about why people in good relationships stop having great sex. Tue in to hear al he details including how she wound up in a non-monogamous relationship and how it has worked for her, the issues her and her partner have had in the bedroom and how she went about fixing them, how and why she decided to become a sex and relationship coach, what tantra means and how she brings it into her sessions to help people, the top three reasons people in good relationships stop having good sex, what comes first lack of attraction or disconnection, reconnection rituals that work, why divorce is looked at so negatively and why it shouldn’t always be, what an erotic blueprint is and how to use it to help identify what your partner is into and why it’s so important, why having someone help facilitate conversations can be a game changer plus a whole lot more. You can find her free gift here: https://www.deborahkat.com GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd or Pre-order audiobook version here To see HOT pics of SCARLET plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://Rythm.Health/STRICTLYANON for 15% OFF your first month PLUS FREE shipping https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! https://LoadBoost.com - To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY https://bluechew.com — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON http://bollandbranch.com/strictlyanon Use code STRICTLYANON for 20% off plus FREE shipping https://beduc.at/pd2618-anonymous Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Speaker 30:59
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Kathy· Host1:10
The Craigslist is definitely, like, the gift that keeps on giving.
Speaker 31:13
Real people respond.
Speaker 21:14
You go to Singapore or Thailand, you can't not do it. The temptation is just too much.
Speaker 31:19
With real problems.
Kathy· Host1:20
Does your friend know that you're banging her or no?
Speaker 31:22
No, he has no idea. And anything goes.
Speaker 21:25
Motto of the show, let your freak flag fly.
Kathy· Host1:27
Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is